Banks can’t legally just take your money and lock you out permanently. There are some actual regulations. Plus they have a proper handle on your actual human identity, which means you ought to always have a route to going somewhere in person and proving you’re the rightful owner of your money.
“Online” accounts have zero regulatory requirements, plus many of them aren’t necessarily directly paid-for, so they frame themselves as doing you a favor by letting you have it in the first place. And they usually don’t have a route to prove identity because they don’t record a legal identity (passport/SSN/etc) to begin with (not that that was an issue here, of course - in this case Apple didn’t dispute that they were the owner, just asserted that they were some kind of criminal.)
“Online” accounts have zero regulatory requirements, plus many of them aren’t necessarily directly paid-for, so they frame themselves as doing you a favor by letting you have it in the first place. And they usually don’t have a route to prove identity because they don’t record a legal identity (passport/SSN/etc) to begin with (not that that was an issue here, of course - in this case Apple didn’t dispute that they were the owner, just asserted that they were some kind of criminal.)