You know, it is easy to find this kind of nitpicking and seemingly eternal discussion over details exhausting and meaningless, but I do think it is actually a good sign and a consequence of "openness".
In politics, authoritarianism tend to show a pretty façade where everyone mostly agrees (the reality be damned), and discussion and dissenting voice are only allowed to a certain extent as a communication tool. This is usually what we see in corporate development.
Free software are much more like democracy, everyone can voice their opinion freely, and it tends to be messy, confrontational, nitpicky. It does often lead to slowing down changes, but it also avoids the common pitfall of authoritarian regime of going head first into a wall at the speed of light.
Opensource software doesn't have 1 governance model and most of it starts out as basically a pure authoritarian run.
It's only as the software ages, grows, and becomes more integral that it switches to more democratic forms of maintenance.
Even then, the most important OS code on the planet, the kernel, is basically a monarchy with King Linus holding absolute authority to veto the decision of any of the Lords. Most stuff is maintained by the Lords but if Linus says "no" or "yes" then there's no parliament which can override his decision (beyond forking the kernel).
Free software are much more like democracy, everyone can voice their opinion freely, and it tends to be messy, confrontational, nitpicky. It does often lead to slowing down changes, but it also avoids the common pitfall of authoritarian regime of going head first into a wall at the speed of light.