Using this now, and love it. For easy mail reception and sending, mail-in-a-box does it all for you (if you don't mind opinionated, but stable) and Stalwart does it all for you and is highly configurable, including an oauth2 server and more. Keen to try Mox, but I think it went viral and their website accidentally got ddos'ed.
I've been using mail-in-a-box for 5 years and I couldn't be happier. For me, stability is the #1 concern for an email server, and mail-in-a-box is really set it and forget it. I also like that it includes CalDAV and CardDAV, so it served as a complete substitute to Google Mail+Contacts+Calendar.
