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> "Hey man have you tried going a couple days without smoking weed?" is not interrogation. It's concern.

It's still telling them what YOU think they should do, no matter how nicely and concerned you phrase it. At some point you have to walk away; they're full adults, they're not your responsibility, they're able to make their own choices, and unless they affect you directly it's ultimately not your job to fix them.



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